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Jun 3

Miley Cyrus photoshoot for Marie Claire in 2012.

Kristen Bell is looking very sexy here.  

What’s a Good Way to Get Women to Notice You On An Online Dating Site?

This is a pretty common question for men to have.  When you first sign up for a dating site,  you are more than likely going to be at least a little bit enthusiastic about the possibility that you are going to have some success in attracting women.  You might be a little bit skeptical at the same time,  but there is probably going to be a part of you that at least HOPES that things go well.  Of course,  most men find that things don’t quite happen the way that they hope it would and they usually end up feeling like they are NOT getting the kind of attention that they would like to get.  What can you do to make sure that doesn’t happen to you and that you DO get women to notice you on an online dating site?

More advice here:  Online Dating Tips for Guys

Here are some tips that should at least help you out a little bit if you want to get attention from women on a dating site:

1.  You have to choose to upload photos of yourself that show off a little bit of personality.

All you have to do is look at the kinds of photos that most men upload and you’ll see at least one reason why they are not getting the attention that they would like to get.  Most men’s pictures are BORING and they make the guy look like he is boring.  Okay,  do you think that having a boring photo is going to make women feel like they want to get to know you?  Probably NOT.  Get yourself 5 or 6 different photos with different positions,  facial expressions,  etc and see which ones get the best response.  You can change them around,  so do that.  When you find the one that gets the most attention,  keep that as the main one that women see when they see your profile.

2.  You also have to understand that getting attention means that you need to GIVE attention.

One of the worst mistakes that you can make is to sign up and do nothing after that.  You can’t treat a site like it is a magical place where women are going to come out of the woodworks just because you put up a profile.  You have to make contacts with women if you want to get attention.  Most of the dating sites that are popular have some way of instant messaging or communicating with women on the site,  so make use of that feature.  If you end up doing nothing at all to start conversations,  you really can’t complain if you end up not meeting anyone,  right?

3.  You need to try to spruce up your profile so that you seem like a really interesting guy.

Most sites have a way of filling out your profile so that you can kind of let someone know who you are before you speak with them.  The way that most men do this is the lazy way.  They put up a few boring lines of text and that’s it.  What happens if a woman does like what she sees in your picture but then finds that you didn’t put up anything compelling to describe yourself?  There is a good chance that she is going to end up passing on you.  You don’t want that to happen,  do you?  If not, then try to take some time to fill out your profile in a way that really makes you seem kind of interesting so that there is a GOOD REASON for her to want to contact you.

May 8

Super sexy photoshoot video of Mila Kunis for Esquire Magazine.  

May 7

How to Seduce a Woman Properly - 3 Tips to Make Seduction Seem Simple for You

When I was a bit younger, I found that it was a lot harder than I thought it would be to seduce a woman. I found that lines that other guys said worked all of the time just didn’t seem to do the trick when I used them. I found that I didn’t have the confidence to even approach the kinds of women that I really wanted to end up with. That all changed, but not after some painful learning experiences. This article will help save you from having to go through those painful learning experiences so that you can start having success right away.

Here are 3 tips that will make it seem simple to seduce a woman properly:

1. You MUST instill the confidence in yourself to be able to approach the women that you really want to approach.

If you shy away from the kinds of women that you really want to be able to attract, you are not going to have the motivation and the drive to want to get better at being able to seduce a woman. You need to have that drive, that motivation and it comes from having the confidence in yourself to believe that you really do have a chance at attracting the kind of women you want to be with.

2. You have to be able to talk sexually to a woman without it coming across as being forced.

When a lot of men try to talk sexually to a woman, it has that feeling of them trying to force it, as if it is not happening naturally. That is NOT a good thing. You need to be able to make the conversation sexual, but it has to appear to be naturally leaning that way. When it seems forced, then it will make the woman feel uncomfortable and you don’t want her to feel that way at all.

3. You must be able to make a woman feel sexual tension when you are trying to seduce her.

Trying to seduce a woman without sexual tension is like trying to drive a car with no gas in it. It’s not going to go where you want it to go. You have to be able to create a little bit of sexual tension and then learn how to dial it up a notch so that she really feels like she wants to win you over. Otherwise, you will be like most men and end up trying too hard and getting nowhere at all.

Are you ready to find out more about how to seduce a woman properly so that you can make it seem EASY?  Go to:   Female Seduction Secrets to find out MORE…

May 5

Ashley Greene Esquire photoshoot video.  

May 2

How to Attract My Ex Girlfriend Back - Will It Help If I Stay Friends With Her?

You are certainly not the first man to contemplate the idea of trying to stay friends with an ex girlfriend with the hopes of that being the best way to attract her back into a romantic relationship. Like most, though, I suspect that if you do try to do that, you are going to find that it doesn’t do what you want it to. Instead of seeing you as a potential boyfriend again, what you are really going to end up doing is putting yourself in the friend zone with her. That’s the reality of what happens when a guy tries to remain friends with an ex girlfriend.

So, most of the time, the answer is going to be No. It won’t help you to attract her back into a relationship if you are her friend.

I know that you can find plenty of advice that says the opposite. That’s fine. What you have to think about is what sounds good and what actually works. Those are not always the same things, are they? It sounds good for someone to suggest to a guy who wants his ex girlfriend back that he should try to be her friend, but when you look at guys who do that and see how many of them actually win back their ex girlfriend, the answer is obvious. It doesn’t work.

If you can’t try to be her friend, what does work?

The answer lies in the question. You want to know, how do I attract my ex girlfriend back? Attracting her back means that you have to make her feel ATTRACTION. And not the friendship kind, the romantic kind. The sexual kind.

Have you ever noticed that a woman who is extremely sexually attracted to her boyfriend will put up with just about anything from him? As long as she is attracted to that guy, she is going to remain with him. Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying that you should somehow become a jerk to your ex girlfriend. Not at all.

What I am saying is that when the sexual attraction is strong enough - getting her back is EASY. However, you are not going to be seen by her in that way if you try to be her friend. When you do that, you box yourself into the non sexual category in her eyes. That’s not going to put the odds in your favor for being able to attract her back, is it?

Are you ready to find out HOW to sexually attract your ex girlfriend back to you?  Go to:   I Want Her Back to find out MORE.

May 1

Brooklyn Decker’s photoshoot for GQ.  Very hot.

FHM Philipines Karen Anne Tuazon

Very nice.

3 Must Know Tips for Getting and Keeping a Girlfriend

It’s not just good enough to figure out how to get a girlfriend. You probably don’t want to find yourself in one of those situations where you think that you have found someone to have a relationship with, only to find it fizzle just a few weeks or months into things. That happens a lot and a lot of the time, the guy is left to his own devices as to try to figure out what he did wrong, what he could have done differently, etc. This article will shed some much needed light on what you can do if you want to get a girlfriend… and KEEP HER.

Here are 3 of what I consider “must know” tips for getting and keeping a girlfriend:

1. You have to be crystal clear on what kind of woman you want to be with.

Why? Because with so many relationships, guys go into it just wanting “a girlfriend” and not getting specific as to what kind of woman that they want. It’s kind of like wanting a job and not getting clear on what kind of job that you want - you might find yourself doing something that you absolutely hate. Well, the same is true with getting into a relationship. You want to know exactly what kind of woman you want, or else you might end up in a situation that sucks.

2. You have to know where your weaknesses are and improve on them.

Here are two really common ones: being boring and being insecure. If you are a boring guy, she is going to get bored with you. And who can blame her, right? No girl dreams of attracting a guy who is going to end up leaving her feeling totally bored. And if you are insecure, then your insecurity will drive her away. It happens all of the time and it ends up being one of those self fulfilling prophecies. Guy is insecure that he will lose his girlfriend and acts in such a way that he DOES end up losing her. Don’t do that.

3. She has to feel like you are sexually competent.

This is something that is seldom talked about, but it DOES matter a lot. If you don’t know what to do to make her feel like the sex life you have with her is fulfilling, she is going to end up wondering if there is a guy out there who does know how to make it feel fulfilling. And if she feels that way for long enough - she is probably going to end up looking. Make sure that you are sexually competent. Don’t kid yourself, if that is an area that you can work on - go ahead and do it.

Want to know what else you have to do to get a girlfriend and keep her? Go to: How to Seduce a Woman to FIND OUT more…